Don’t Be Misled About Relationships The Real Problems Usually Come From What Is Not Being Talked About

 

I remember a friend of mine—quiet, a little shy—who used to claim he was getting laid every single day. I didn’t buy it at first. Compared to me, I felt I had more going on: decent looks, confidence (well, unless I was around stunning women). So naturally, his story sounded far-fetched.

One evening, we were cruising through Westlands, just chatting, when he started opening up about his latest girl. She was no ordinary lady—she was the daughter of a powerful politician. The stress was written all over his face.

“Man, I can’t even afford dinner. She always pays,” he muttered.

I tried to reassure him. “It’s not about money, bro. If she’s into you, let her spoil you a bit.”

But then, he dropped a confession that stopped me in my tracks.

“Most girls dump me because of my size,” he said.

“What do you mean?” I asked, trying to keep the conversation light. “You’re dating women but feel like a boy? C’mon, you’re a man!”

But he wasn’t joking. “I wish I was just an inch bigger. Even a little would make a difference.”

I won’t lie—my heart went out to him. That’s a hard thing to admit. But because he was a close friend, I didn’t judge. I wanted to help.READ STORY HERE.